Tilo ngwana Rashaka Mokgopo
A marriage of convenience: Perhaps when Suffocate reached a conclusion that he will take Nikkie to be his wife the former thought it was the best decision that will benefit the innocent unborn child in the long run.
But unfortunately that’s nonsensical. Suffocate wanted to marry Nikkie out of his free personal will because he wanted to be with her. But while on that, it will be unfair of me to disregard the fact that people marry for different reasons. In some cases people don’t marry for love, but for comfort and riches and it seems Suffocate’s unborn child took precedence in his decision to marry Nikkie.
The truth is the man had two choices before him and he chose to disregard one. 1, not to marry Nikkie and play a part time daddy and 2, to make Nikkie his wife in the ‘interest of the unborn child’ but Suffo decided to go with the second option. Fair enough, one would argue. If you are not going to make her a wife, why make her pregnant then?
But who said Nikkie and Suffocate’s marriage is in the best interest of their unborn baby? If this marriage is based on doing what is good for their baby and not out of love, then that’s problematic and could harm the baby’s welfare as opposed to providing love and comfort to him.
Imagine a child growing up in a cold family where there is no love and peace? Nikkie and Suffo are human beings and time and again the need to satisfy their sexual desires will arise and when such time comes, they’ll only have two options, to either sleep together or cheat. But if they slept together before, then it will be much easier for the two to do it again, this time with no guilt conscious.
It will be a long term emotional trauma for the baby to grow up knowing that his parents are not getting along. Let me reiterate my point with so much enthusiasm this time. What is in the best interest of a child is to grow up in a family filled with love, peace and happiness. How is Nikkie and Suffocate going to give their child the necessary support he deserves if the parents are cold towards each other?
As I conclude, Suffo and Nikkie unanimously took the decision to walk down the aisle because they wanted to be together. So, my dear Puleng don’t you think it is in your best interest you back off and let Suffocate make his own mistake he’ll live to regret? If her hurt you once, disowned you for someone he apparently does
not love, imagine what will happen tomorrow should he find yet another girl he has strong feelings for.